Consensus Through Conversations: How to Achieve High-Commitment Decisions

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Whether you facilitate meetings for a living or simply as part of your job, you’ve surely found yourself “standing in the fire”—at the center of a group that is polarized, angry, fearful, and confused. Veteran facilitator Larry Dressler has found that what makes the crucial difference in these situations is the leader’s presence. You have to master a way of being that allows you to remain effective no matter how hot things get. Dressler shows how to cultivate six “stances”—mental, emotional, and physical— that will keep you steady, impartial, purposeful, compassionate, and good-humored,. Drawing on his own experiences and the insights of thirty-five distinguished practitioners, he helps you keep your cool and make the kind of inventive, split-second decisions these pressure-cooker situations demand.

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Weight 0.18 kg
Dimensions 0.84 × 13.97 × 21.44 cm
PubliCanadation City/Country

USA

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Language

Pages

120

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Year Published

2006-11-12

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ISBN 10

1576754197

About The Author

For more than fifteen years, Larry Dressler has designed and facilitated conversations and learning experiences that elicit new insights and inspire action in organizations. He is sought out by executive leaders as a trusted advisor on how to weave candor, commitment, collaboration and continuous learning into the fabric of the workplace. As the founder of Blue Wing Consulting, Larry has traveled throughout the country speaking, consulting, and connecting with people who embody what he calls “Wide-Awake LeadershipTM.” He has worked with a wide variety of organizations, including Nissan Motors, USC University Hospital, Starbucks, Washington Department of Ecology, Pediatric AIDS Foundation, U.S. Federal Protective Services, and Cisco Systems. Described by clients as a “gentle instigator of breakthrough conversations,” Larry’s work has brought him to interesting places including the headquarters of companies in 30 industries, a “circus school” in Colorado, the Ecuadorian Amazon, and Skid Row, Los Angeles. Whether in a corporate boardroom, on a factory floor or underneath a rainforest canopy, Larry’s special talent for posing powerful questions and setting collaboration in motion is at the heart of his work. Larry’s education combines the disciplines of social psychology and business strategy. He earned his BA degree in Sociology from UCLA and an MBA from the UCLA Anderson Graduate School of Management. He has also completed post-graduate coursework in Organizational Psychology. He lives with his wife, Linda in Boulder, Colorado.

“In this wise and stimulating book, Dressler draws on his rich experience to show us how to bring our personal best to facilitating polarized group situations.” —William Ury, coauthor of Getting to Yes and author of The Power of a Positive No “An invaluable companion for all those who train, facilitate, run, or design high-stakes meeings…Dressler’s well of wisdom is awe-inspiring.” —Susan Scott, author of Fierce Conversations and Fierce Leadership “A book for anyone who feels called to stand in hard places and help people find life-giving ways to proceed.” —Parker Palmer, author of A Hidden Wholeness, Let Your Life Speak, and The Courage to Teach “Practical, insightful, and filled with entertaining stories. I recommend this book for anyone working in the arena of public engagement and deliberation.” —Sandy Heierbacher, Director, National Coalition for Dialogue and Deliberation

Table Of Content

Foreword by Pierre Gagnon Preface INTRODUCTION: THE NEW RULES OF DECISION-MAKING CHAPTER 1: WHAT IS CONSENSUS? Consensus Defined Beliefs That Guide Consensus Choosing the Right Decision-Making Approach Alternatives to Consensus Common Misconceptions Consensus in Action CHAPTER 2: HOW DO I PREPARE? Determine Whether Consensus Is a Good Fit Decide Who to Involve in the Decision Enlist a Skilled Facilitator Clarify the Group’s Scope and Authority Educate Group Members Develop an Agenda Gather the Relevant Information Start the Meeting Off Right CHAPTER 3: WHAT ARE THE BASIC STEPS? Step One: Define the Issue Step Two: Establish Decision Criteria Step Three: Craft the Proposal Step Four: Test for Consensus Step Five: Reach Agreement CHAPTER 4: HOW DO I WORK WITH DISAGREEMENT? Using Consensus Cards Expressing and Resolving Legitimate Concerns Dealing with Opposition or “Blocks” CHAPTER 5: SIX TRAPS THAT UNDERMINE CONSENSUS Member Absence from Critical Meetings Grandstanding Members Obstructive Blocking Pressuring Members to Conform (Coercive Tactics) Group Fatigue and/or Frustration Silent Members CHAPTER 6: TEN TIPS FOR BETTER CONSENSUS MEETINGS Set Clear Ground Rules Use a “Group Memory” Distinguish “Must” from “Want” Criteria Use Silence and Pauses Assign Questions and Tasks to Breakout Groups Put Discussion in a Fishbowl Stack Participants Take a Break Use Technology Wisely Evaluate the Meeting CHAPTER 7: TOWARD HIGH-COMMITMENT DECISIONS Return to the Roots of Consensus Remember the Words of My Teachers Reconnect with My Purpose and Values Resource Guide Index About the Author

Excerpt From Book

The New Rules of Decision-Making You think that because you understand ONE, you understand TWO because one and one make two. But you must understand AND. —Sufi Proverb For today’s leaders, understanding AND means discovering the power of putting the right people in the same room at the right moment for the right conversation. Understanding AND means recognizing that there are times when you gain influence, credibility and commitment by including others in critical decisions. Understanding AND means embracing the idea that multiple, often conflicting perspectives can be creatively combined into breakthrough solutions. 2 AND is about inclusive leadership—the art of bringing diverse voices to the table and seeing what can be learned and accomplished. In the past, a more inclusive way of leading and making decisions was a philosophical choice. Today, it is a business imperative. In every corner of organizational life, collective decision-making has become the rule rather than the exception. Let’s look at some of the reasons why this is becoming truer each day. Hierarchical organizations are giving way to flat networks. The “leader as brain, employees as body” model of organizations is obsolete. Leaders recognize that in today’s complex and changing environment, one person rarely has a corner on the knowledge and judgment market. Technology has put information in the hands of the people who need it most—particularly those on the front lines. Well-informed decisions must include the perspective of those with first-hand experience. The issues organizations and communities face are increasingly complex. The only way to navigate complexity is to test the implications and impacts of our solutions by drawing on a wide range of resources and perspectives. When we fail to involve the right stakeholders, we often create problems that are more significant than the original problem we were trying to address. A new generation of knowledge workers are voting with their feet. They want to be included. They want to influence decisions that impact their work. If they can’t, they take their skills and knowledge and go elsewhere. The ability to implement a decision quickly is as important as agility in making the decision. Fast implementation is determined by the extent to which people understand and support the decision. Participation accelerates execution. Given the foregoing trends, consensus has become a more and more common approach to decision-making in organizations. As you move toward more inclusive leadership, consensus is one of those strategic tools that you will want to have in your repertoire.

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